I agree with you that Feminism is a highly charged topic. And the truth is that we cannot deny that *some* social inequalities were historically addressed through this movement.

There are also many problems that can be connected to the aggressive push of women to get out of the home and into the workplace. Perhaps not ALL problems that are blamed on feminism actually stem directly from that movement. Personally, I believe few of them do. I step back a bit and can honestly say that most of the problems we see in society have existed for centuries.

Feminism may not be the “root of all evil”, but I am willing to examine the idea that it may very well have been a main vehicle to propel us into an advanced state of destructive self-centeredness which continually eats away at the moral fiber of our society.

It is a bit disturbing to read that Kelly’s best option “is to not discuss this topic any further at all, since we are that many who disagree with you on this very issue.” (This suggestion is made on *her own* blog where she graciously allows anonymous comments and encourages thoughtful, RESPECTFUL discussion of her opinions)

A short list of other “touchy” topics include abortion, homosexuality,the environment, religious freedom and politics. Should people just stop talking about these things because someone who’s mind is made up might get offended? Sure, we would avoid “catfights” but we also would be silencing many people who truly have a perspective worth considering.

Kelly appealed to readers to exercise a modicum of maturity and self-control when posting. And she asked that those who are not remotely open to honestly examine her perspective please post where their dissenting opinion will be welcomed.

I don’t see that as being unreasonable.

Heather

As a Christian woman who I feel has been given a platform to write and share with other believers, avoiding the topic of feminism is hardly possible.

I believe feminism to be a concept whereby many (Christians included) have forsaken biblical truth-not simply a “harmless” movement of women. And as such, we are bringing destruction to ourselves, our families and our culture.

If I am concerned for people, their families, and their culture, I cannot but speak.

One can’t address problems without addressing the cause.

Anonymous,

Sadly most people look at others to determine their salvation instead of Jesus Christ.

Don’t let your destiny be decided by something other people do. Really…. too many make the decision to turn their back on God because of others (who may or may not know Christ).

Something sobering: We will not be judged by what OTHERS do but by the choices we ourselves make. Others will not determine our destiny. We will. Choose Him!

I speak in Love. Just as I would push someone out of the path of physical danger.

John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.

He loves you and wants you to be His.

Well Kelly left up my post, and now I learned from it….and also in hindsight wished I would have left some of the text OUT of my post. I really was not trying to ‘attack’ people….was trying to understand. But, yes, some things are left better untouched and unsaid. Id delete the post, but am not trying to hide anything….

“I get just as worked up over the treatment of others as i do myself.” And that is a wonderful thing!

“Sometimes it can be a great gift to see oneself as a hypocrit.” You here show a very humble attitude. But I hope I didn’t imply that you are a hypocrite. See, I do think people can do things out of their official way of thinking,or out of their habit, without meaning to. I did suspect that you were too emotionally bound to the arguments to notice what was likely (now surely) a slip. That does not make you a hypocrite.

Thank you for giving me the benefit of the doubt too, regarding care for others’ feelings and treatment. Yes, that was my concern. It’s a little tricky to me to want to defend someone, but not want to “butt in”. But then, I’m a “regular” here, so I’m not always sure when it’s butting it. When I’m not a regular visitor, I tend to sit on my hands (so to speak) and leave the site. Thanks again.

Perhaps me addressing those who werent possibly talking about me….or even meaning it the way they said….is on some parallel as you addressing me about it? maybe we both see a need for people to think about what they are really doing. Thank you, now in hindsight for pointing that out. In my own way, I did the same thing. Sometimes it can be a great gift to see oneself as a hypocrit. Then I see how much more I need Gods help. Thank You.

That is certainly true. I was responding only to what you typed, except for the “your hurting” suggestion. That I inferred from some typed comments here and in other blogs (like about scripture memorization and grace), but inferred it. I’m glad I was mistaken about your path. I apologize for that annoyance.