Comments on: Letter From an Ex-Husband http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:39:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: A Living Fragrance » Blog Archive » Daily Digest for 2009-05-30 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html/comment-page-1#comment-11266 A Living Fragrance » Blog Archive » Daily Digest for 2009-05-30 Sun, 31 May 2009 08:51:25 +0000 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/?p=1460#comment-11266 [...] Bookmarked a link on Delicious. » Letter From an Ex-Husband - Generation Cedar [...] [...] Bookmarked a link on Delicious. » Letter From an Ex-Husband – Generation Cedar [...]

]]> By: Antigone http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html/comment-page-1#comment-9993 Antigone Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:17:01 +0000 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/?p=1460#comment-9993 Sounds like the guy was a narcissistic, only-my-pain-is-important, jerk. I wish whoever his wife was all the happiness in the world. For him, I wish he'd grow up. If there are problems in a relationship, you talk about them. If there are problems that you sense from your partner, you ask about them. (Like the "never responded to my touch" thing: why did it never cross his mind to ask her if he was touching her wrong?). But, at the end of the day, it's not working, and people are made miserable in a relationship, time to bail. Oh, and if you're so focused on who's son it is, you were never a father in the first place. Sounds like the guy was a narcissistic, only-my-pain-is-important, jerk. I wish whoever his wife was all the happiness in the world. For him, I wish he’d grow up.

If there are problems in a relationship, you talk about them. If there are problems that you sense from your partner, you ask about them. (Like the “never responded to my touch” thing: why did it never cross his mind to ask her if he was touching her wrong?). But, at the end of the day, it’s not working, and people are made miserable in a relationship, time to bail.

Oh, and if you’re so focused on who’s son it is, you were never a father in the first place.

]]> By: Mrs. Anna T http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html/comment-page-1#comment-9963 Mrs. Anna T Mon, 20 Apr 2009 14:03:27 +0000 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/?p=1460#comment-9963 Very sobering. Very sobering.

]]> By: Kim M. http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html/comment-page-1#comment-9953 Kim M. Sun, 19 Apr 2009 05:04:15 +0000 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/?p=1460#comment-9953 Every wife needs to read that!!! Every wife needs to read that!!!

]]> By: Bethany Hudson http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html/comment-page-1#comment-9951 Bethany Hudson Sun, 19 Apr 2009 01:48:09 +0000 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/?p=1460#comment-9951 Yikes! Yikes!

]]> By: wordwarrior http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html/comment-page-1#comment-9945 wordwarrior Sat, 18 Apr 2009 21:46:41 +0000 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/?p=1460#comment-9945 Jill, Excellent recommendation--along with "The Proper Care and feeding of Marriage"...I actually am a pretty big fan of Dr. Laura...not necessarily her crassness from time to time, but her unmitigated boldness to say what needs to be said in the face of a deceptive culture. Sometimes I really do need to "hear it like it is" ;-) Jill,

Excellent recommendation–along with “The Proper Care and feeding of Marriage”…I actually am a pretty big fan of Dr. Laura…not necessarily her crassness from time to time, but her unmitigated boldness to say what needs to be said in the face of a deceptive culture.

Sometimes I really do need to “hear it like it is” ;-)

]]> By: Jill http://www.generationcedar.com/main/2009/04/1460.html/comment-page-1#comment-9944 Jill Sat, 18 Apr 2009 21:11:18 +0000 http://www.generationcedar.com/main/?p=1460#comment-9944 This man mentioned The Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura. I am not a huge fan of hers but this book was an awesome indictment of the attitude that we women carry toward men thanks to the indoctrination of the fminist movement. Yes, even we "Gentle and Quiet Biblical women" can harbor these thoughts and attitudes. The companion book is called Woman Power and it contains the reactions of men to what Dr. Laura has written about. Ladies, at the very least read Women Power! This man mentioned The Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura. I am not a huge fan of hers but this book was an awesome indictment of the attitude that we women carry toward men thanks to the indoctrination of the fminist movement. Yes, even we “Gentle and Quiet Biblical women” can harbor these thoughts and attitudes. The companion book is called Woman Power and it contains the reactions of men to what Dr. Laura has written about. Ladies, at the very least read Women Power!

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