Don’t Waste Your Talents

Growing up I was a soloist in church. I was repeatedly reminded by older, well-meaning men and women, that I must “keep singing or I would lose my talent”.

I now attend a church where the emphasis is on worship rather than performance, and so I don’t sing solos in church anymore. (We have a beautiful music service where harmony and unity is celebrated, with an occasional opportunity for soloists to enhance the service; and I believe there is a time and place for those given unique musical gifts to showcase those gifts….I’m not opposed to public performance-my caveat for this article.)

But we miss the point. I was actually reminded not long ago, that since I’m not regularly singing in my church I may “lose my gift”. In other words, I’m “hiding” my talents like the naughty servant in the parable.

It was a sharp and painful reminder, again, of the lost view of the ministry of motherhood and all the opportunities the Lord gives a woman to serve her family, and the eternal Kingdom work that is precious in the sight of our Father who sees in secret.

As I knelt in the quiet dark of my children’s room, my five-year-old daughter whispered, “Mommy, sing to me.” And in a spontaneous moment, without any pressure of performance or critique, I softly began, “‘ ‘Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus, just to take Him at His Word….”

And I believe it was not wasted.

 

WE’RE FINALLY HOME!!

I can’t believe it! After almost a year since last April’s beastly tornado, through the love, sweat, sacrifice and devotion of hundreds of people, we spent the first night back at home Friday! I cried. We rejoiced. And we gathered around as my husband urged our children to remember, “This is not our house but the Lord’s, and we will live as such.” (“His mercy endures forever.”)

This is our living room, dining room and kitchen–all an open room and very livable for a family our size. Mallie and Kyla were trying to duck out of the picture ;-) The room you see to the left will be a library with floor to ceiling shelves. (And if you are a new reader, almost all the wood–floor, ceiling and wainscoting, was milled using the fallen trees on our property.)

This is the island with a built in bench seat (inside the “L”) for added seating. The cabinets were salvaged from our previous house, painted and distressed, with some repairs by a dear friend, and I’m so glad we were able to use them. The first of many cost-cuts. You’ll likely realize by the end that in another life, I would LOVE to do “upcycled” interior design. Not that I’m good at it, but nothing thrills me quite like making something new from something old, saving a ton of money and achieving a uniqueness not readily found in standard or commercial products. In the background is the school/office area.

This picture shows the counter tops that my awesome husband made–it is my favorite feature. We made them out of pallets, trying to cut costs (we were originally thinking tile). I could not be happier about “frugal-forced creativity” in this case. He  poured epoxy wood glaze to achieve the glassy, protective covering. We also did these in the bathrooms. Cost of cabinets and counter tops: a lot of hard work…well, and the cost of the glaze.

This is a shot of the living room from the back. The salvaged wood on this wall came from a house just up the road. The little room is our guest bathroom, with a homemade partition made of old doors. Here’s a close up:

I had this idea because the layout of the room requires the bathroom to be uncomfortably close to the living room. I wanted a bit of a barrier. Notice the Ball jar light (squeal).

Another shot of the island and the backside of the kitchen. I plan to do open shelving made with the salvaged wood on either side of the sink.

This old door (found at “junk man’s” house for $75) leads onto what will be a screened in porch. That’s an old refrigerator you see through the window. The Lord provided us with new appliances the day before we moved in but they haven’t been delivered yet. “His mercy endures forever.”

Old metal gate used as stair banister–$25

Our master bedroom, the only bedroom upstairs (eventually). I white-washed the walls. To save money there, in case you ever want to do it, instead of buying the special paint, just mix regular paint with water, 50/50. I painted two coats. It’s so crisp.

Ladder: $5–Suitcases: $0—Painting from my children: priceless. Oh, and if your husband gives you roses or flowers, remember not to toss them when they start to die.  Just take them out of water and hang them upside down to dry. My very favorite decoration.

I love our bathroom. I wish I could have gotten a shot of all of it. The metal was an idea I probably got from Pinterest ;-) and I love it!

There are no words to articulate what this year has meant for us. I almost feel I shouldn’t try because I will fall so short of communicating our gratitude and love for what the Lord has done through so many. I want to express my public gratitude for my husband. He has worked tirelessly to get us this far. And building a house with him was so fun, confirming our “made for each other” personalities. I dream, he builds. It’s like a beautiful dance.

It’s so true; a woman needs her nest. My heart sighs and sings to be home again. I feel alive.

Our basement has 3 rooms finished (laundry, closet and oldest child’s) and the rest of it is piled, I do not jest, floor to ceiling with boxes to unpack. So while I’m so glad to be home, the work still left to do is overwhelming. The basement will have to be finished little by little and in the mean time, five of the children are sharing a room upstairs (it’s the cutest though, I forgot to take a picture!) We built a “platform” across one end of the narrow play room and put a full mattress on top. The girls sleep underneath in what they think is a play house. It works for now.

We also still have a tremendous amount of finishing (trim, stairs, light fixtures, etc.) and the yard, well, you wouldn’t believe it if I tried to tell you ;-)

But it’s home!!! HIS MERCY ENDURES FOREVER!

We also have been without Internet for several days and will not have it for a few more. So I check in here and there, but may not be able to keep in touch with you for yet a little while. I can read your comments on my husband’s phone ;-) But if you wonder why this post might stay up for a few days, that’s why! And even then, our work will be long and hard, so I will do the best I can here.

I love you all so much. I can’t believe the sense of friendship I have here and the incredible blessing your words and prayers and gifts have been to our family.

You are amazing.

May The Lord bless you and keep you.

May the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you.

May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.

Are You in the Right Ministry

I only have this life.

I only have this day.

I only have this minute to choose how I will live.

What is the best I can do?

(What is the chief end of man?  To glorify God and enjoy Him forever.)

How can I glorify Him in this minute?

When the milk is splattered across the floor in early morning hours?

Is this work important?

(“And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by Him.”)

“Lord, use me in a mighty way for You!”

“It’s not what you do that makes your work mighty, only how you do it.”

(“And whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is a disciple, truly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.”)

Am I looking for a ministry…a way to feel used by God, a place to feel like my gifts and talents are being utilized in the best way?

I am looking for the program, the ministry that will produce the most numbers?

Jesus said, “believe ME and out of you will flow rivers of living water”.

Jesus never measured sincerity by numbers….only by obedience in the moment.

Your ministry is your life, right where you are.

Are you glorifying God there?

Are those around you being refreshed with the living water that flows out of you?

How is the ministry of your marriage?

How is the ministry of motherhood?

How’s it going in the daily details of life?

Do you glorify Him there?

A cup of cold water…rivers flowing out of you.

Jesus said that is the best you can do.

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Worldview of Children: Our View Does Change the World

Fertility is a tricky thing…most consider it a private issue with little consequence except how it will affect their own family vacations (unless you encounter a family with more than three children, and then you’re allowed to prod into their sex lives ;-) …but I digress).

However, it is my particular opinion that NOTHING changed our culture and the face of Christianity as much as our changed worldview of children. NOTHING. (Try your mind at the “connect-the-dots” related to our view of children. I won’t get to it in this post; perhaps another day.)

And for that reason, I also believe it is our urgent duty to challenge each other, in the body of Christ, to consider our worldview here.

Your worldview shapes every decision you make. Everyone has a worldview, whether consciously or not. If you don’t deliberately form your worldview around the principles and laws of God’s Word, you will take the default view of the culture and that will shape your life choices. For a Christian, that is very serious. “Do not love the world or anything in the world”.

A worldview refers to the framework of ideas and beliefs through which we interpret the world and interact with it.  A worldview describes a consistent (to a varying degree) and integral sense of existence and provides a framework for generating, sustaining, and applying knowledge. (From Wikipedia)

Regarding children, the fundamental questions must be answered for us to form a correct worldview. Who creates life? What is their purpose?  What is our purpose?

And we begin to unravel that...that our purpose here, according to Jesus, is DYING daily, leading those whom the Lord has given us to Life, serving and teaching them to serve–the essence of bringing a lost world to know Christ…then our worldview will get turned upside down and it will change everything!

Think about how little our culture’s punch list for life has to do with the few things with which we are charged from Scripture? I would even challenge you to stop here, and make a list with two columns. “What society expects of me and my children” and “What the Lord has asked of me and my children”.

We ask the wrong questions when we get tangled in things like, “Is it right or wrong for a Christian to use birth control?”

That question can have important implications in sorting through a biblical view of children, but if often leads to wrangling over words.

The important thing is simply our starting place. When our thoughts chase after His thoughts (“Your thoughts are not my thoughts, says the Lord…”), we allow Him to guide our choices instead of assuming the status quo.

We start with the job we were given on this earth…”to wash feet”, essentially. Doesn’t that encompass nearly everything Jesus commanded?

And we work our way from there.

Children are given to us as gifts, as tools, as a heritage, as added numbers to His church, and as a means by which we are changed, challenged and formed more into the Lord’s image. Children are His people, showing us the keys to Heaven (“unless you become like a little child…”He knows. Christians cannot make light of turning fertility on and off like a faucet. Children are not for us. They are not for displaying and showcasing. They are His “to do and to will of His good pleasure”. May we be honored to serve as vessels, ushering them into the world and then immersing them in His love.

The Simplicity of True Christianity

“If we were left to ourselves with the task of taking the gospel to the world, we would immediately begin planning innovative strategies and plotting elaborate schemes. We would organize conventions, develop programs, and create foundations… But Jesus is so different from us. With the task of taking the gospel to the world, he wandered through the streets and byways…All He wanted was a few men who would think as He did, love as He did, see as He did, teach as He did and serve as He did. All He needed was to revolutionize the hearts of a few, and they would impact the world.”
― David Platt, Radical: Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream

Don’t we get confused with all our programs, plotting and busyness?

It’s so simple…can we walk through life, as Jesus did, loving, serving, seeing and teaching as Jesus did, the people in front of us? Face set like flint, indifferent whether scorn or admiration, accolades or condemnation, prosperity or poverty, seeking to please only our Heavenly Father, to be about HIS business in all things.

That is the essence of true Christianity, the only one that will transform hearts and revolutionize the world.

Fun, Frugal, Family Project–Making Maple Syrup

Making Maple syrup is a fantastic project, if you have access to maple trees, for the family! It is fun, educational, thrifty and nutritious, not to mention gives a great sense of accomplishment as an area of self-sufficiency is mastered!

If you’ve ever wanted to learn how to “tap”, the Moore’s have filmed More Than Making Maple Syrup, a delightfully warm, light-hearted, informational DVD taking you step-by-step through the entire process.

Join the Moore family as your questions are answered in a friendly, engaging format. I feel sure you will be ready and more than confident to tap your own trees once you’ve seen the process.

Last year before a tornado took all our trees, my Dad and our children tapped their first maple trees. While it’s quite the process, there is so much to learn and so much family fun to enjoy. And there is nothing like getting to taste that first, sweet batch after all the hard work is done!

I highly recommend More Than Maple Syrup to get you on your way to tapping! Let the Moore’s inspire you and learn alongside them!

The DVD features how to make maple syrup in 7 simple steps:

  1. Selecting your trees
  2. Choosing and cleaning your equipment
  3. Tapping the trees
  4. Collecting the sap
  5. Making the syrup
  6. Removing the taps from your trees
  7. Enjoying your syrup

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