I have had several requests lately to give a general picture of what it looks like to homeschool in our family where there are several different age levels as well as small children. An overview of my basic homeschool philosophy is detailed in my ebook “Think Outside the Classroom” if you’re interested in reading more.
As far as how that philosophy translates to real life, I’ll give it my best shot!
First, we are relaxed. Some days I think it would be easier to be less relaxed, on other days I’m glad we’re more flexible and not haunted by deadlines.
I do not “teach for a test”. That is, while we’re concerned that our children learn much of the same basic information taught in school, we are not concerned as much with when they learn it or whether they perform well while testing. This makes a huge difference in how children are educated.
Our “skeleton” schedule—if nothing else gets done–is this:
The three oldest have a math and English curriculum that they work on independently with my help if needed. We use different curriculum from year to year, but right now everyone is using Rod and Staff. They also do copy work, usually from the Bible.
The oldest has a pretty large reading assignment of an assortment of books and subjects (Apologetics, Government and right now she’s studying events of the 20th century–specifically, the Holocaust.) She will write an essay on one of these books every few weeks and I will grade it and go over grammar, spelling and usage errors. (If I felt inadequate to do this, I would solicit the help of a relative or friend.)
The next two do daily reading assignments from a Science book and History book (right now it’s Apologia Science and A Child’s Story of History). In addition, they must “leisure read” from another book of their choice, approved by one of us.
I usually read aloud to all the children at some point during the day from a biography or “living book”. The little ones can play in the floor during this time, but everyone has to be quiet.
For the little ones, it’s pretty spontaneous. I encourage them to play a lot, and as they show interest in learning the sounds of letters I sit down with them just a few minutes a day and go over that. If they don’t show interest, I require them to sit with me and practice letter sounds at around age 6. I’m currently teaching the 5th one to read and I have never used a curriculum or program to do it. Just sounds of letters, then sounds of blends (consonant and vowel), then putting words together and helping with sight words. It’s worked every time! I don’t get real antsy about their reading at a certain age because they eventually learn to read well, even if they don’t start early.
For variety, I try to switch things up sometimes. For example, today I officially gave them “‘math and English off” until Christmas, but my 9 and 11 year old have to play a math game with each other each day and they each have to read a section from “Explore & Learn” to a younger sibling. Bria is delighted to just have more time for reading, and she also actually enjoys reading from learning books with the younger ones. We also incorporate educational videos and documentaries.
My husband tries to ask them at dinner to talk about something they learned that day. This helps them solidify their knowledge and keeps him more involved as well.
Their Dad usually reads from some book at night besides the Bible. Right now we’re alternating between “Life of Washington” and “They Signed for Us”.
As I emphasize in the ebook, I think a parent cannot underestimate the power of simple conversation in a child’s education. I believe this is possibly where they learn the most.
My husband and I usually reevaluate everything at the first of the year and make necessary adjustments. Little things like not forgetting to have the age-appropriate ones learn to type, or discussing whether a certain curriculum is a good match for each child.
We personally feel that “education” is best summed up by “being literate and well-read, developing critical thinking skills (done best through conversation), being numerate and maintaining a thirst for learning”. Above all this though, as Christians, we desire that our children develop a fear of the Lord which is the beginning of knowledge.
I’ve probably left out lots of questions, so feel free to ask and I’ll try to explain
I do not think our way of schooling is superior, at all, it’s just what works for us in this season.
Addendum: (I thought of something else
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A common fear about homeschooling is “what if I can’t teach them everything?” Good news is, you don’t have to, nor CAN you. The “system” makes us think that one needs to be under the constant tutelage of an expert to learn what we need to learn. I submit that far more important is the skill of “learning how to learn”. A simple illustration is the age-old proverb about how it’s far better to teach a man how to plant a garden rather than planting a garden for a man. (Is that a proverb? I have no idea.) Anyway, maybe you get my point.
I don’t have to teach my child every subject; in fact, no institution is capable of covering everything. I didn’t learn any Chemistry in school, but I excelled in that subject in college. It’s a fallacy for someone to say, “but you need a professional to teach ______. Perhaps, but if and when that time comes, if your child has a foundational understanding of how to learn, it will not be a problem. (By the way, I can’t think of a single instance where I’ve ever needed Chemistry.) To clarify, as a commenter pointed out, I’m not discounting the enormous presence and importance of Chemistry in our everyday life; I’m pointing out that Chemistry isn’t even a required subject in high school, and I don’t feel handicapped for not having had it in high school nor do I feel disqualified to teach my children based on my not being an expert in Chemistry.
We need to rely much heavier on the instincts that God gave us for learning what is needed at the time it is needed, instead of getting worried about fulfilling a checklist of subjects, most of which will likely be forgotten after the test.