(First sentence edited…my apologies if it sounded unloving. I had just come from the discussion that spurred this post, and was feeling a little “charged”
I wonder why so many Christians never stop and say, “What are we doing wrong?” I’m amazed at how quickly some get upset about any suggestions outside the “norm”, yet are equally upset when their children turn out like that norm. I get comments to posts about dating that go something like, “Well, I think it’s silly to expect your children to refrain from a physical relationship during the dating years….” or “How will they know if they want to marry someone if they don’t see what kind of kisser they are?” (I’m serious.)
But then the same parents are angry when their child comes home pregnant. (Scratching head.)
Then comments to the public school debate that go something like, “We are supposed to be in the world”, completely disregarding any biblical principle that suggests that to be “in the world” has nothing to do with allowing our children to be taught by a secular religion and becoming a “companion of fools”, the values of which usually trump any the parents try to impart.
But I digress….kind of.
My sister and I were talking yesterday about the high school classmates she had met up with on Facebook. About half of them were already divorced, having just graduated from high school a few years ago. Unfortunately my sister is one of them. It should be noted, this was a Christian high school. Most of the kids came from “Christian” homes. One of the classmates was in jail for murder, one had a near-pornographic picture as her profile, and several others were involved in lifestyles not mentionable.
“For men…shall be…lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.” 2 Timothy 3:4-5
I’m just shaking my head asking, “What is wrong with this picture?” Divorce happens. Maybe. But at such alarming rates? Among Christians? Children out of wedlock happens. But this often? Fornication. Divorce. Drugs. Crime. Aren’t these the things that Paul admonished the church to “not even let it be mentioned among you”?
And I think again of Einstein’s brilliant quote:
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results.”
So before you write off some “zany” idea like homeschooling or an alternative to dating, consider the proven alternatives. We are doing something terribly wrong, and it’s high time more people say “enough is enough”. If we claim to be new creatures, let us live like it, and not just give lip service.
“For you at one time were dark, but now are light in the Lord: let your behaviour be that of children of light…” Eph. 5:8