When I read my friend, Jenny’s new ebook, Embracing the Mess, it was like a combination of relief, seeing that other moms struggle with exactly the same “perfectionist battles” I do, and peace, reading how the Lord was helping Jenny by peeling back the layers of the real mission of motherhood.
Here is the reality: if you are a mom of more than two children, you are in a minority of women, and there are fewer and fewer places for you to turn for encouragement and just to get a practical idea of what all of this is supposed to look like. I think the unnatural size of most families coupled with years of feminist persuasion has most women feeling like a failure when they’re suddenly faced with the challenges of a growing family.
I think that’s why Embracing the Mess was such an exciting read for me…it fills a void. A void of teaching and encouragement that is rare because the women with real experiences in the “motherhood trenches” are rare.
“What do you do when all your pretty little world of control falls apart through these lovely little chubbycheeks that we want to spend all day kissing? How do wefind grace in the unraveling? How do we embrace the mess?”
It’s not enough that we teach the younger women to desire more children and desire to be home. We must make them fit for this task with practical encouragement and help they can hold onto. That’s what Jenny has done with this book.
“The house gets cluttered, messy and disheveled…and my mind gets cluttered,out of frame and cranky. That’s when the test comes. That is when my true heart is revealed. That is when it is shown whether this gift is being used for His glory…or has turned into an idol in my heart.”
If you struggle with balancing the desire to invest your days in the relationships at home but also struggle with irritability over a less-than-tidy home, Embracing the Mess will meet you there and inspire you to carry out a balanced approach with practical help to boot.
Jenny has graciously offered to give away 2 copies of her new book! All you have to do to enter is subscribe to her blog. For extra entries, share the giveaway on Facebook (you can use the FB button below this post) and “like” her Facebook page, entering a separate comment on this post for each thing.
If you are eager to get it now, get $1 off by entering the code “findingjoy”.
PLUS…starting Tuesday, Jenny is featuring a series on turning your bedroom into a haven. Anyone who would like to participate with before and after pictures gets a FREE copy of Embracing the Mess!